Should I fire my nursing company?

my daughter is 6 months old and has a trach and a feeding tube due to a genetic thing called pierre robin syndrome. she will be back to normal in a year, but for now we have 16 hour in home nursing and a disability check to help get us through these hard times. her dad works in the morning and i got to cl in the morning and then i watch her from 3 pm untill 11 pm. we have a nurse from 11 to 7 and 7 to 3. heres the problem: though we are great parents and we have a nice home, the nurses report every little thing to their supervisors. like once our dog had an accident in the hallway. and then in the summer we had fly tape hanging in the kitchen and they made up that there were bugs in her bottles. there is other silly stuff like when we missed her appmt due to being snowed in. And they also call off alot leaving me unable to go to cl, or sleep, or her dad unable to go to work. But there are no other nursiing companies in our area that deal with babies. Oh and one night i walked into my baby's room and the nurse had fallen asleep-which is bad enuff- While Holding Her! im just afraid cps will be called or ill faIl school PLEASE HELP