I love a married girl...?

I met a girl 2 years ago.in our workplace...soon we become good frends....I love her very much but cannot tell her my feelings,beacuse i think may be i lost a good frend... I frequently go to her home and soon our families become frends as well...after 5-6 months she get engaged..In MAY 2009 she get married.It was an arrange marriage..After marriage she gone to delhi wid her husband.We talk on phone in regular basis...I am also happy for her that she got a right life partner..BUT in january 2010 we found that she has been molested by her husband and in-laws for dowry.in feb 2010 she came back to her parents house after beaten by husband..In april 2010 her husband and in-laws give a apology letter in the Presence of police.After that she came to her husband place...But thing did not changed....Now she files a police complain of dowry harresment and divorce against her husband and in-laws...She dos't have any child yet.Now after all this incidents my slept feelings to her are woken up again.This time i told her,taht what i think about her.And i propose to her...But she is confused what to do....Our relation is totally platonic..We dont even touch each other till yet....but the mental understanding between us is very good.....I love her from my bottom of my heart..and cannot live without her....But i think when i tell this to my parents there will be a great mayhem at my homeMy parents like her very much as a person,but i think they did't accept her as a daughter in law....please any one help me about this issue...I know she loves me also....now she need a god life partner only.....please reply as soon as possible.......